End of Year thoughts

Final Thoughts.

As the semester comes to an end and we all prepare for the holiday season, I want to reflect on what we learned.

First, I have wanted to do a form of media similar to the end-of-course assignment since I left the service. When we return from any operation in combat or training, we produce an after-action report or lessons learned, especially if we were involved in some confrontation with the enemy; we share our experiences so others can learn new techniques used against us. The lessons that we learn when we transition from service to the civilian world are often learned through our own mistakes, and I am sure others make the same mistakes. My blog will continue to aim in helping others transitioning or already out to learn from where we have failed or succeeded in the civilian world.

Second, through the readings, lectures, and conversations with others in my interviews, one form of leadership was reoccurring, servant-based leadership. Though it was not one of the main styles, we studied it was brought up and was a common theme with those I interviewed. "Servant leadership is a philosophy and set of practices that enriches the lives of individuals, builds better organizations, and ultimately creates a more just and caring world." The Marine Corps taught me "Misson First, People Always," that my role as a leader is to ensure the well-being of those I am fortunate to lead. To understand them, both personally and professionally, to know their goals in the future. In my twenty years in the Marine Corps, I can honestly say that I did not display this form of leadership from the first day. I grew and matured as a leader as I was presented with exceptional leaders, mentors, and friends who invested in my personal and professional growth. For that, I will be forever grateful!

Finally, the article talks about the former Texas Christian University (TCU) head football coach Gary Patterson. The article states in its first line, "Nobody since Amon Carter has meant more to football in Fort Worth than Gary Patterson." It discusses all the "good" deeds that Gary and his wife Kelsey have done for this area. The Pattersons work on and off the field to help promote the welfare of others; even after he parted ways from TCU, they are still very active in the community. I look at my approach and the people I would like to emulate in my community. I look at people like them, those committed to not only their success but, more importantly, the success of others.

Saved Rounds

Let us lead at home, in the community, work and strive for the success of everyone around us. I have a great friend from Mississippi that when one of us succeeded, would say, "When one dog eats, we all eat!" When one of us succeeds, we all succeed!

I am starting to line up people for 2022 to continue the conversation around leading others, transitioning tips, catching up with old friends, and having conversations with new friends!

Enjoy your time with those that mean the most because time comes and goes.

Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!

Semper,

Aaron